1ST ISSUE OF DATING AGAIN 101 NEWSLETTER 1/31/02 This is our new newsletter on Dating Again 101 and we are mailing it this issue to those subscribing to Az Single Scene and Country Singles newsletters, our sister sites. If you'd like to continue on this periodic list, please send an email to dating_agai-@topica.com An opt-out link appears at the bottom of each newsletter should you choose to do so. We hope you try it for a while at least. Be sure to visit THE "BACK BURNER" DATING THEORY ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING ON THE BACK BURNER. Continue to have contact with other singles even when dating actively and continue to meet new people. Do not put filling all your social needs on one person. This way you are acquainted with and still have contact with many single people who are dating material and the current heavy can not "do it to you" by splitting and leaving you "nowhere". When you continue to meet and have contact with and know lots of interesting people you would like to know better, then you can just move one up from the back burner. That is "dating security". DANCES STILL RATE Meeting single people at dances is great. Where else can you meet someone for the first time and be "cuddling" in 30 seconds. KEEP IN TOUCH WITH OTHER SINGLES Nothing to say? Just send em a comic email type (free) greeting card... is one such service..... or something funny someone sent you.....or one of our fun things at ....... (changed regularly.) This lets them know you are still thinking about them....You can do half a dozen in 5 minutes. Sending them something about once a week is about right just to keep in touch. Do birthdays, holidays etc. too of course. Address each individually - best not to have more then one address on the email though...send each individually. (no carbon cc, copies...) ALTERNATE DATING ADVICE SITE FOR...[unrelated to us] MEN - WOMEN - Our new "talk about single life" chat site is interesting, Join in and throw in your two bits... at To get on our free email newsletter edited by Harlan on working thru your divorce in less time...email divorce_recov-@topica.com and be sure to visit our web site at If you want to get this continuing DATING AGAIN 101 newsletter send an email to dating_agai-@topica.com